No no Shindong, do not fool your ant brain encased in a huge-ass-head. The girls are comfortable around you because to them, you're just like one of her gal pals. They don't really see you as a man they're at all interested in. Let me explain something to you, called the "Ladder theory."
Btw, losing weight does not help you jump from an inferior ladder to the Real Ladder.
On a slightly related note, I found this video someone posted of "A-cha" except they changed the pitch up almost a whole octive because they didn't want to get caught by youtube. I personally think it adds a little chipmunky punch to the otherwise monotonous song. Kinda hilarious.